Within a week her usual lover was in our bed making love to her. It stopped, then started again so I told her let’s swing again to open up the marriage. She thought this was odd but she was excited. I wonder why. She also cammed as we didn’t have tons of money. This was my bright idea and seemingly showing off my then hot wife. What was I thinking? I know people will be judging me about what happened, or tell me my wife does not love me, she does, and I love her. Like I wrote before, my wife gets impulsive, and I have had to talk her out of doing crazy things before, like buying expensive cars, and jewelry. I should have no problem doing it again.

I found my husband, fully dressed in his swimsuit and shirt, seated in the kitchen just talking with Cindy. She gave me the evil eye like I was interrupting her conversation, but I asked my husband if he was ok. Before he answered, I told my husband we had to go because it was late and I was crashing. My husband pulled me to him, told me I had an irresistible glow about me, and just kissed me on my forehead. He looked over at Cindy and Tom and thanked them for a wonderful evening and told them he wanted to get me home and make me happy. I started to sob, I told him I was tired and out of it from the shots, and I held him tight not looking at all at Tom, who I could sense was behind us. My husband laughed and told me I was such a light weight, and he called a cab since neither of us was in the condition to drive. Tonight's talk should be a simple one on your end. Your first question should be, "do you want to stay married and committed to me and only me, or do you want to Divorce?" You probably will get the "I'm confused, I don't know what I want" schpeal. Don't fall for it. Be firm and tell her, "I am not going to wait around forever while you find yourself, you need to make a commitment, me, or your other lifestyle". If you wish to give her time, there's nothing wrong with that. You better read and RE-read Chrome Barracuda's post to you. Women don't want weak, whipped men ... and that is exactly how you are acting. REMEMBER, in a relationship, the one who cares the LEAST has all the power ... and you have ceded ALL power in this relationship to your W. I went to a small private school from first through twelfth grade. We knew each other pretty well and had some kids that joined and some that left, but fortunately most of the class remained through all the grades.

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For the first time on the cruise, I was starting to feel worn out – in the most satisfying way, of course. Karen has changed a lot over the last few years, she is a big time executive at her job, and makes a boat load of money. I am not sure how I even got her to date me let alone marry me. She works out almost everyday, which gives her a killer body, she still has big ** too, Go figure! We felt pretty awkward, but we soon realized that this is just natural human behavior. People gravitate toward those they already know. And when you throw in the strong likelihood that you're going to be exchanging fluids with them later on in the evening, then of course, you're going to be a bit more discriminating about who you're hanging out with. As an example of that communication and trust, here's a story one couple we met early on shared with us: He consoled me and literally begged me how badly he had this fantasy from childhood. I understood I don't have any choice to continue this marriage so I nodded painfully.

Anyway we all agreed to go to a hotel that's when i realized my girlfriend was mad for lying to her and not telling her the truth about this swinging couple. She told me if we did anything that we were over. I told her lets leave i will not throw away three years for one night with this couple. She told me no we are doing this i want to do it. So i went along with it and we swapped and had a lot of sex and a great time with the other couple. They wrote: "We've been to JayDees twice now. Both times have been excellent fun...the atmosphere is relaxed and you are always greeted with a friendly smile - the staff really are great. If you want to R., then lay out the boundaries, and see where it goes. Remember you cannot control what she does, you can only control what you do. If she won't stop the cheating, you can't do anything about it, but YOU can file for a D. That might just wake her out of this fog that she is in. In some ways, the entire experiment brought us closer. I liked seeing how protective he was of me when meeting other couples. He always ensures they are gentle with me and that I am given the space to ease into it.

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The second time we met another couple, we went for a full partner swap. After they left, John and I openly talked about our experiences thus far. I have always appreciated our open line of communication and how we can honestly share our feelings about each encounter. Image: Stephanie Lee / RICE File Photo She finally broke down and showed remorse when I told her that I made an appointment with a lawyer about divorce. I think it hit home that her world and the kids' lives were about to be radically affected by her act. She started to think that she could afford to stay on island because she want to keep the good support we have for my autistic son, but I told her that it she couldn't afford to stay in Hawaii. I told her that I'd either send her and the kids home to live with her parents, or I send the kids to live with my parents on the mainland and she could do whatever she wanted to try to get by. I told her she could even go whore around downtown for all I care, but she be part of the kids' lives if she stays in Hawaii. John and I love each other, and we have built a relationship in which we coexist harmoniously. The unique nature of our relationship and the memories we have created together can never be replicated by or with another person. In your case , as other posters have pointed out, you would be doing this to placate your wife........I think it would end up like pouring gasoline on a fire.. We became swingers and were quite successful I believe that because my wife was and is gorgeous. She’s not as gorgeous as she was in her 20s and 30s but she has Lyme disease and stuff popped up. She also hides behind the bottle a log and is now a drunk, so she’s lost a few steps.